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Old 2002-07-06, 23:38
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Big Problem!

ok, so heres the situation im currently faced with. Theres this cheerleader chick who just so happens to be into the same music i am, and shes totally hot too, and ya know we get along all good and stuff. So ya know, i like totally fell in love with her... and so finally i had the guts to tell her. Well, i told her and she said she felt the same way about me, so now we're constantly like both like totally in love with each other and all that good stuff.... it sounds great and all, but heres the problem... shes my lead singer's girlfriend of 11 months..... she said shes gonna break up with him for me (cuz he pisses her off anyway)... and im cool with that, but it seems wrong ya know... could this destroy the band? could this be the end of me and my singer's friendship? I know by going out with her then he'll be TOTALLY pissed at me and i dont know what to do, somebody gimme advice.. i need help BAD....
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Old 2002-07-07, 00:47
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this is quite a dilemma, HELP!!!
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Old 2002-07-07, 01:11
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So like, you can like totally like stop saying like to start off with...like ok?

Now.....if i were in your shoes, i would talk it over with my friend first. I know he wouldn't let me go out with her the day after they break up.......but i'd wait a while and ask. One of my friends have a saying (father death actually), "bros before hoes". So...if it could damage the friendship, don't do it. Make sure you ask him before.....if he says "fine, go out with her".....then you have his approval, so there shouldn't be any problems.

Friends are hard to come by, and good friends are even harder to find. Don't let one girl ruin a friendship man.

Like, got that?!?
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Old 2002-07-07, 01:16
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*cackle*.. yeah but what if he gets his posse to do a 187 on my ass... i dont wanna ask him, i'm not sure how much he'll care ya know... cuz he was gonna cheat on her anyway cuz he was always talkin about this other chick all the time... so if he gets all bent outta shape about it.. then ill simply kick him out of MY band cease all contact... hes not really like one of my best friends ya know.
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Old 2002-07-07, 03:33
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Well if he doesn't mean anything to you (which is what you make it sound like) then go for the chick.

You seemed so scared in your first post that you'd lose his friendship and singing capabilities......but now you don't seem to give a shit, so what's stopping you?
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Old 2002-07-07, 07:37
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Yeah, so if your friendships dying between your lead singer then
simply ask her out, because it wont affect nothing, well unless on the other hand you sed something about ''his posse'' lol u could just a get a group, or..just dont bother, i dont really know..i think memnoch said it all, well done memnoch!
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Old 2002-07-07, 17:06
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Old 2002-07-07, 17:48
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I dunno dude, that's a fucked up situation. I was in a similar situation once, actually twice, but either way, someone's gonna end up gettin pissed off, so...... I say fuck it, if you want this chick that bad, go for it dude!
 
Old 2002-07-07, 19:41
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Whatever you do in this situation at least get some ass out of it man. How good is this singer? Is he expendable? How hot is this chick? How much do you like her, having music in common isnt enough. I've had girls tell me they're gonna dump their boyfriend/husband whatever and they never do. Girls are lying motherfuckers, just as much as they claim guys to be. Be careful and weigh everything before you do anything stupid.




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Old 2002-07-07, 21:30
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Friends are hard to come by, and good friends are even harder to find. Don't let one girl ruin a friendship man.

That´s it... and nothing more!!!

But when he´s not such a good friend and just a (bad) member, you don´t really like, get this girl.


BTW memnoch, how ended your dicision for your girl and the movement to another town?
 
Old 2002-07-08, 14:43
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BTW memnoch, how ended your dicision for your girl and the movement to another town?


I'm still planning on going there.....but if all goes well i probably won't be moving until about october or november.
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Old 2002-07-08, 18:34
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Why dont you just kill your friend? he's going to die one day right?


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Old 2002-07-08, 18:48
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lol, u shouldnt of sed that...might put ideas in his head..ur just fiddling with his brain like that..u never know he might be some physcho killer..and actually do what u sed..eh eh? think about that!
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Old 2002-07-08, 18:50
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woooooo, only jokin...



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Old 2002-07-08, 20:20
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yeah, i say if you love the girl, bang her and forgot about that other dude. it's not like you can bang him.
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Old 2002-07-09, 12:52
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yeah, i say if you love the girl, bang her and forgot about that other dude. it's not like you can bang him.


Taken from my mouth.
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Old 2002-07-09, 14:27
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not like you can bang him.



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Old 2002-07-10, 20:36
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it's not like you can bang him.

y not????





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Old 2002-07-14, 00:33
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well.. the situation is solved... she broke up with him, and to make matters worse, on the same day his best friend go thrown in jail for 15 years for possession of all kinds of drugs.... but me and her are goin out... he doesnt know it... and i dont plan on telling him... well, for a while anyway...
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Old 2002-07-14, 00:40
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That's pretty funny (about his friend).

As for your situation.....well.....whatever.
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Old 2002-07-14, 08:34
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on the same day his best friend go thrown in jail for 15 years for possession of all kinds of drugs.... but me and her are goin out... he doesnt know it




ahahahahahahahhahaaha gutted!!!!!,


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Old 2002-07-15, 17:35
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go for it..it shoudln't break you and the singers friendship because he would understand. If he doesn't, then he is an ass and not a real friend if he can't feel happy for you.
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Old 2002-07-15, 19:09
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go for it..it shoudln't break you and the singers friendship because he would understand. If he doesn't, then he is an ass and not a real friend if he can't feel happy for you.


It's hard to be happy for someone when they're going out with their girl a few days after breaking up.

That's why i suggested giving it a month or two.
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Old 2002-08-21, 05:30
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so what ended up happening with this dealie?
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Old 2002-08-21, 07:46
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so....its your mate or a new love interest? is that really such a hard decision?
 
Old 2002-08-21, 10:43
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so....its your mate or a new love interest? is that really such a hard decision?


It could be, depends on what a person's morals are.
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Old 2002-08-21, 11:00
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true that too.
 
Old 2002-08-21, 14:09
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i say go for the chick dude, chicks that like metal are pretty hard to come by, and if they're hot, then go for it! just remember the (.)(.)!!
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Old 2002-08-21, 18:32
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Who cares if a chick likes metal or not?

I prefer non-metal chicks now.
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Old 2002-08-21, 23:38
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I prefer non-metal chicks now.


What means this now? What happened to your "story"? Is she a metal-chick?
 
Old 2002-08-21, 23:47
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I was with someone who was close enough to be considered a metal chick. She was mainly a punk....but enjoyed some Slayer, Pantera, Cannibal Corpse....stuff like that.

Anyways, she turned out to be the most immature person i've ever met. She's quite stupid, ignorant, inconsiderate of other people's feelings (even though she pretends to be). She had many friends and they were all the same. I've known other metal/punk/whatever chicks since then and they all seem about the same.

So....now i don't like em. I just go for whoever i get along with best. And right now it's a preppy girl. She's turned out to be one of the most caring, intelligent, hot, sexy people i've ever met. She's nothing like the stereotypical "prep".....which is good.
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Eternal, and eternal I endure
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Old 2002-08-21, 23:56
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You´re one lucky bastard

I´m still searching and i´m too shy. Fuck. But one day....


BTW Why you´re not a "Forum Daemon" but "The Devil"? I´ve realized all Daemon have other names. Did nomad upload this?

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Old 2002-08-22, 00:12
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i was going out w/this HOT ass italian chick...then she hadda move to chicago im over it now, cause i gotta girl thats 10 times hotter!!
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Old 2002-08-22, 10:36
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You´re one lucky bastard
BTW Why you´re not a "Forum Daemon" but "The Devil"? I´ve realized all Daemon have other names. Did nomad upload this?


Yes i am quite lucky........more so than you think. (and i don't mean that in any sexual pun.....i'm quite lucky to still have her)

And yes.....the gods...i mean, mods have this option. The norms (you) do not.
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Old 2002-08-23, 22:48
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And yes.....the gods...i mean, mods have this option. The norms (you) do not.


No big deal really.
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Old 2002-08-24, 00:02
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the all powerfull mods. bend over and feel their glory.
 
Old 2005-05-06, 13:51
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haha a nice hot girl whos in the same music as me never happend but it would be a dream lol

theres no REAL metal chicks were i lvie they all just say that form listening to slipknot and godsmack lol

but id tell her to breka up with him tehn liek wit a week then go out with her
so it wont seem liek she broke up with him for you
 
Old 2005-05-06, 14:08
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STOP BRINGING DEAD THREADS TO LIFE YOU CUNT!!!!
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Old 2005-05-06, 14:23
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^exactly, this thread is ancient!!

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This is the worst recycle EVER.

You are really, really, really stupid.
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