Big Problem!

[Head_split_Open]

ok, so heres the situation im currently faced with. Theres this cheerleader chick who just so happens to be into the same music i am, and shes totally hot too, and ya know we get along all good and stuff. So ya know, i like totally fell in love with her... and so finally i had the guts to tell her. Well, i told her and she said she felt the same way about me, so now we're constantly like both like totally in love with each other and all that good stuff.... it sounds great and all, but heres the problem... shes my lead singer's girlfriend of 11 months..... she said shes gonna break up with him for me (cuz he pisses her off anyway)... and im cool with that, but it seems wrong ya know... could this destroy the band? could this be the end of me and my singer's friendship? I know by going out with her then he'll be TOTALLY pissed at me and i dont know what to do, somebody gimme advice.. i need help BAD....

[Head_split_Open]

this is quite a dilemma, HELP!!!

[memnoch]

So like, you can like totally like stop saying like to start off with...like ok?

Now.....if i were in your shoes, i would talk it over with my friend first. I know he wouldn't let me go out with her the day after they break up.......but i'd wait a while and ask. One of my friends have a saying (father death actually), "bros before hoes". So...if it could damage the friendship, don't do it. Make sure you ask him before.....if he says "fine, go out with her".....then you have his approval, so there shouldn't be any problems.

Friends are hard to come by, and good friends are even harder to find. Don't let one girl ruin a friendship man. :smash:

Like, got that?!?:rolleyes: :p

[Head_split_Open]

*cackle*.. yeah but what if he gets his posse to do a 187 on my ass... i dont wanna ask him, i'm not sure how much he'll care ya know... cuz he was gonna cheat on her anyway cuz he was always talkin about this other chick all the time... so if he gets all bent outta shape about it.. then ill simply kick him out of MY band cease all contact... hes not really like one of my best friends ya know.

[memnoch]

Well if he doesn't mean anything to you (which is what you make it sound like) then go for the chick.

You seemed so scared in your first post that you'd lose his friendship and singing capabilities......but now you don't seem to give a shit, so what's stopping you?

[Tattered]

Yeah, so if your friendships dying between your lead singer then
simply ask her out, because it wont affect nothing, well unless on the other hand you sed something about ''his posse'' lol u could just a get a group, or..just dont bother, i dont really know..i think memnoch said it all, well done memnoch! :beer:

[CtHuLhU DaWn]

forget em both and come live in the jungle with me...:love:

[metalgraingirl]

I dunno dude, that's a fucked up situation. I was in a similar situation once, actually twice, but either way, someone's gonna end up gettin pissed off, so...... I say fuck it, if you want this chick that bad, go for it dude!

[slayme_returns]

Whatever you do in this situation at least get some ass out of it man. How good is this singer? Is he expendable? How hot is this chick? How much do you like her, having music in common isnt enough. I've had girls tell me they're gonna dump their boyfriend/husband whatever and they never do. Girls are lying motherfuckers, just as much as they claim guys to be. Be careful and weigh everything before you do anything stupid.




If all else fails and you're still stuck, ask Satan.

[MetalPoldi]

Originally posted by memnoch
Friends are hard to come by, and good friends are even harder to find. Don't let one girl ruin a friendship man.

That´s it... and nothing more!!!

But when he´s not such a good friend and just a (bad) member, you don´t really like, get this girl.


BTW memnoch, how ended your dicision for your girl and the movement to another town?

[memnoch]

Originally posted by MetalPoldi
BTW memnoch, how ended your dicision for your girl and the movement to another town?

I'm still planning on going there.....but if all goes well i probably won't be moving until about october or november.

[Atheist]

Why dont you just kill your friend? he's going to die one day right?

[Tattered]

lol, u shouldnt of sed that...might put ideas in his head..ur just fiddling with his brain like that..u never know he might be some physcho killer..and actually do what u sed..eh eh? think about that! :mad:

[Tattered]

woooooo, only jokin...:drunk:



:beer:

[atifman]

yeah, i say if you love the girl, bang her and forgot about that other dude. it's not like you can bang him.

[DerMeister]

Originally posted by atifman
yeah, i say if you love the girl, bang her and forgot about that other dude. it's not like you can bang him.

Taken from my mouth.

[CtHuLhU DaWn]

Originally posted by atifman
not like you can bang him.


:love: :love: :love:

[Snyper]

Originally posted by atifman
it's not like you can bang him.
y not????





lol, jks
dude, go for the pussy
:beer:

[Head_split_Open]

well.. the situation is solved... she broke up with him, and to make matters worse, on the same day his best friend go thrown in jail for 15 years for possession of all kinds of drugs.... but me and her are goin out... he doesnt know it... and i dont plan on telling him... well, for a while anyway...

[memnoch]

That's pretty funny (about his friend).

As for your situation.....well.....whatever.

[Tattered]

Originally posted by Head_split_Open
on the same day his best friend go thrown in jail for 15 years for possession of all kinds of drugs.... but me and her are goin out... he doesnt know it



ahahahahahahahhahaaha gutted!!!!!,


*cough* sorry



:beer:


<marquee>does it work</marquee>

[superjoint666]

go for it..it shoudln't break you and the singers friendship because he would understand. If he doesn't, then he is an ass and not a real friend if he can't feel happy for you.

[memnoch]

Originally posted by superjoint666
go for it..it shoudln't break you and the singers friendship because he would understand. If he doesn't, then he is an ass and not a real friend if he can't feel happy for you.

It's hard to be happy for someone when they're going out with their girl a few days after breaking up.

That's why i suggested giving it a month or two.

[atifman]

so what ended up happening with this dealie?

[morbid_death]

so....its your mate or a new love interest? is that really such a hard decision?

[memnoch]

Originally posted by morbid_death
so....its your mate or a new love interest? is that really such a hard decision?

It could be, depends on what a person's morals are.

[morbid_death]

true that too.

[mrweijia]

i say go for the chick dude, chicks that like metal are pretty hard to come by, and if they're hot, then go for it! just remember the (.)(.)!!

[memnoch]

Who cares if a chick likes metal or not?

I prefer non-metal chicks now.

[MetalPoldi]

Originally posted by memnoch
I prefer non-metal chicks now.

What means this now? What happened to your "story"? Is she a metal-chick?

[memnoch]

I was with someone who was close enough to be considered a metal chick. She was mainly a punk....but enjoyed some Slayer, Pantera, Cannibal Corpse....stuff like that.

Anyways, she turned out to be the most immature person i've ever met. She's quite stupid, ignorant, inconsiderate of other people's feelings (even though she pretends to be). She had many friends and they were all the same. I've known other metal/punk/whatever chicks since then and they all seem about the same.

So....now i don't like em. I just go for whoever i get along with best. And right now it's a preppy girl. She's turned out to be one of the most caring, intelligent, hot, sexy people i've ever met. She's nothing like the stereotypical "prep".....which is good.

[MetalPoldi]

:beer: :love: You´re one lucky bastard;)

I´m still searching and i´m too shy. Fuck. But one day....


BTW Why you´re not a "Forum Daemon" but "The Devil"? I´ve realized all Daemon have other names. Did nomad upload this?

[metal=life]

i was going out w/this HOT ass italian chick...then she hadda move to chicago:( im over it now, cause i gotta girl thats 10 times hotter!!:D

[memnoch]

Originally posted by MetalPoldi
:beer: :love: You´re one lucky bastard;)
BTW Why you´re not a "Forum Daemon" but "The Devil"? I´ve realized all Daemon have other names. Did nomad upload this?

Yes i am quite lucky........more so than you think. (and i don't mean that in any sexual pun.....i'm quite lucky to still have her)

And yes.....the gods...i mean, mods have this option. The norms (you) do not.:cool:

[OpethRules]

Originally posted by memnoch


And yes.....the gods...i mean, mods have this option. The norms (you) do not.:cool:

No big deal really.

[slayme_returns]

the all powerfull mods. bend over and feel their glory.

[HatecrewESP]

haha a nice hot girl whos in the same music as me :love: never happend but it would be a dream lol

theres no REAL metal chicks were i lvie they all just say that form listening to slipknot and godsmack lol

but id tell her to breka up with him tehn liek wit a week then go out with her
so it wont seem liek she broke up with him for you :beer:

[rabbifoodslicer]

STOP BRINGING DEAD THREADS TO LIFE YOU CUNT!!!!

[Def]

^exactly, this thread is ancient!!

closed.

[far_beyond_sane]

This is the worst recycle EVER.

You are really, really, really stupid.